Hi. Welcome. I’m Katie. If you’ve read my story, you know that my ex ran away after I discovered his addiction. On an ordinary day in July, his phone paired with my car’s Bluetooth as I sat in my driveway, about to leave for lunch with a friend. The “Bluetooth moment” is a story for another time, but what matters here is this: I didn’t confront him that day. I was deeply shocked and confused by what I had heard in my car. But I also knew it wasn’t proof. It could be explain

Hi. I'm Katie. If you're hurting, curious, in need of clarity, or need to normalize your emotions, I welcome you to this space. I hope to share all the things that helped me survive the terrible, devastating trauma of finding out the person you love the most is a secret addict. Discovering your partner’s secret sexual life can shatter your world. The shock, confusion, anger, and grief can feel unbearable. I’ve been there. This space is for partners of porn, sex, fantasy